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Do you think it’s necessary to wait 90 days before intimacy?

The 90 day rule suggests women should not have sex with their new beau until 90 days after they meet. While men may respect a woman that can control themselves, most people can’t control themselves for that long. Should you wait 90 days? Yes, but if it’s too difficult, wait at least 30 days to see if the man is even worth your time. If he can’t wait, you don’t need to be with him.

Is there a time limit on how long you should be together before marriage?

There shouldn’t be a set time, because every person and relationship is different. Marriage isn’t anything you should want to rush into either. Wait to see how the relationship is, and if you really want to spend the rest of your life with that person. However, if you have been with someone for over five years you should know if that person possesses the qualities you want in a husband or wife. If the person does not possess those qualities, it’s time to move on and find someone else who fits your lifestyle.

How long should you be friends before getting into a relationship?

People need time before jumping into a relationship. A friendship is a great way to start, before getting into a relationship, to see if it’s someone you can see yourself being with. Some friends may know they want to be together. While with other friendships, one friend may want a relationship, while the other does not. Some friends may bloom into a relationship faster than others, and it just depends on the type of individual.

How can I get over road rage?

Road rage is something many people struggle with, including me. When you’re driving down the interstate and someone cuts you off there is a certain anger that bubbles inside, but we have to learn to get over that. People are always in a rush to get nowhere, and we have to understand that. Keep calm; you can’t control what the next person is doing in their vehicle.

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