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I have a crush on my sister’s best friend who is 3 years older than me. I would love to ask her out but I’m afraid of what she’ll say because I’m younger than her. Should I ask my sister to talk to her or ask her out myself?

Signed,

Young but Ready!

You may be young but you’re ready! (cues beyond’ song) Seriously, I definitely think you should go for it! I mean chicks dig younger guys these days especially if he has his head on his shoulders. Being a cougar is the new thing. I don’t think you should ask your sister to hook you up, because that shows you’re not confident and we don’t want that! Hopefully she’ll give you a chance! Thanks for the question!

xoxo,

Tara and Trell

 

Dear Tara and Trell,

I’ve been dating this guy for a month and I want to cook for him..should I or is it too soon to start showing my domestic side?

Thanks,

Ready to be a wife

 

Well, thanks for the question however we feel as though it’s never too soon to show a man that you can cook! Just don’t make a habit out of it too soon because you still want those date nights! Being able to cook is a great trait the opposite sex looks for in a companion! Good luck with everything! Share some of those recipes!

 

xoxo

Tara and Trell

Dear Tara and Trell

My girlfriend has a lock code on her phone and she won’t tell me why. She won’t leave her phone alone with me, not even when she goes to the restroom. Should I be worried?

-concerned and confused

I feel as though your girlfriend has a right to have privacy, so I don’t think you should pressure her to give up the code. Trust is the biggest factor in a relationship, so if you feel as though she’s being sneaky then maybe you two shouldn’t be in a relationship. Although, her taking her phone with her to the restroom could be a red flag! Have a sit down with her and figure it out. Best Wishes!

xoxo

Tara and Trell

 

Dear Tara and Trell,

I feel like I should lose 50 lbs before the summer. Any workout suggestions?

-Summertime fine

Hey summertime fine! I definitely feel you on that!  However, 50 lbs is a tremendous amount of weight to lose in such a short time! As long as you’re doing it to make yourself happy then plan something out with a trainer. I don’t have any workout tips, but I can point you in the direction of someone who does! Felecia Flake is a great trainer and she’ll consult with you! her instagram is Fabulosity30. Have a great summer and good luck with your journey!

xoxo

Tara and Trell

 

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